- Kinky BDSM Dating Site for Fetish and BDSM Singles

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  • DatingforLove
  • Jan 21, 2024 sets itself apart from other mainstream dating sites by offering you a platform for niche fetishes and fantasies. It is an ideal dating site for alternate sex and kinks with more than 2 million members. You can explore gay, latex or foot, spanking or medical fetish, nylon fetish, Japanese bondage, rope bondage, self bondage and a lot of other bondages to experiment with. is a leading BDSM online destination for those who wish to explore bondage interests and kinky BDSM dating.

Getting it on with Kinky Sex from Adult Swingers Worldwide

The site is owned by AFF or Adult Friend Finder, and has members who are exclusively into BDSM. It is a niche site that has been well tailored to target this particular demographic. The features on are very similar to those found on AFF.

Basic Features for Standard Membership

You can create a free profile and later upgrade to the Silver and Gold membership to get access to all the features on the site.

Check out the New Matches feature on, for seeing the new members of your area and find someone to hook up with locally. Your profile will also show up on the new matches of other accounts.

You can then make a search and check out hottest videos or photos; hottest members and get some live action through instant messaging and in the chat rooms. However, to access the community, blogs etc., you have to upgrade.

Begin by chatting in the newbie room and then select topical chat rooms based on the popularity levels. You can chat with other members and watch videos, start viewing webcams and then move on to dating.

Paid Membership

By becoming a Silver member of, you can view all members and contact them. Your profile will also be featured before the basic members, but only after the Gold member profiles. You can also contact any new member on the site before basic members contact them, but only after the Gold members. You get access to live as well as recorded introduction videos created by members and full time support from the site. Send flirtation flowers to other member and get points or other merchandise in return.

In case of a Gold membership, your profile shows up on top before the Silver members. Apart from getting all of the above perks, you can access blogs, groups as well as the magazine for an unlimited period. You can also view photos in extra large size. This membership allows you to access AIM, MSN, and YIM IDs of the members within your network.

Signing Up

It is easy to register with your basic details, such as whether you are a man; couple; group; TS/TV/TG and email id. You have to then answer a questionnaire which helps other users to know your kinks and fetishes for a better match.

Create a quality profile to get more replies from other members. You can upload a photo and create a personalized title. Write in detail in the essay portions of signing up; describe your personality, your dreams, so that you get proper matches responding to it. Fill out the optional questions as well, to help others get to know you better. Select your fetishes from the list to make it easier for other members having a similar kink to find you.

After registering at, you can login and locate profiles that you want to contact, send email to users, add them to a hotlist, flirt with them, add the person to your network or send a voice message and buy them gift certificates. All this depends on whether you are a free member or have upgraded to a Silver or Gold membership on

Search Members

Based on your membership type at, you can search based on the username or search by criteria, such as man; woman; couple; and so on. You can also check out Who's online now or Who’s viewing me; new member matches for your profile or the new member gallery, the most recent voice introductions and other such criteria.

Other Things to Do

Members of can create a favorite list or hotlist and connect with them. The Cupid Report helps match you with suitable members. Check out the Who’s Viewing Me page. Broadcast a live video or use a webcam to stream a video. Interact in the chat rooms or through the friend network. Send a voice message or a video to a member. Host your own blog and access the magazine, BDSM videos and so on.

Chat Rooms

You can pick a chat room based on the geographic locality or by topics. Start in the lobby and get to know others.

Additional Features/Tools


You are rewarded with a point for doing a specific activity on the dating site. You will find a list of the activities and the number of points you can get for them. Once you score points, you can use them, or redeem them for a membership upgrade; sending virtual flowers; getting a featured profile or even something special from the shop, such as an T shirt.


Members can send flirts in the form of a spank; a wave; a hug and so on.


  • has a robust search function, whereby you can search based on any fetish or BDSM interest
  • The dating site also has a mobile app, both iOS as well as Android versions
  • Offers a great option for alternative sex, BDSM and fetish dating


  • The biggest problem is the number of fake profiles on the site
  • There are too many options and heavy features available and this makes the site cluttered, complicated and a little difficult to use


You can upgrade to a Silver Membership for a month at $19.95; and a Gold membership at $29.95. If you opt for a 3 month membership, it works out cheaper at $11.99 a month for the Silver and $19.99 for the Gold. An annual membership is more economic at $8.95 a month for the Silver and $13.43 monthly for the Gold membership.

Last Word

Is it worth it? Sure. If you’re into fetishes and kinky sex, this is just the site for you. Make sure to flash out your profile well and then start checking out the new matches feature. Thanks to dating sites like, you no longer have to hide your particular kink or fetish or play down any alternative lifestyle while trying to get a date. At, you will find a host of people sharing your special kink and alternative views.

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